And I know that I won't end every day with a smile. But it's so worth it. Jamie Johnson is a mom and writer from Owensboro, KY. Follow her blog HashtagMomFail. It's 5 pm. You just got home from a busy day at work, dinner is nowhere close to being started, and the afternoon shenanigans have taken ahold of your little ones.
They need some time to decompress from their busy day and, let's be honest, you need a few moments to transition into the last part of yours, too. You want to say yes, but you also have fears about technology. How much is too much? Is it bad for my children? Will it isolate my children from me? We desperately want to be connected to our children , and for our children to be connected to the world. Unfortunately, she says, the "fear and skepticism about these devices hold us back from their potential. Even more exciting, did you know that the right screen time can help your child develop empathy?
Empathy is a skill, but as a society, we are losing it. In a world fraught with inequities, divisiveness and conflict, rebuilding empathy is paramount. Motherly mamas agree. In the State of Motherhood survey , you told us that your top priority was to nurture kindness with your children.
But how do we do this? Telling our child to "be a kind person" is great, but in order to truly understand, they need to see empathy in context. By using digital content as a prompt for communication and conversation, it becomes one of the many tools we have at our disposal to help guide our children on the path to becoming empathic, kind people. Raun D. Melmed, MD, FAAP, a developmental and behavioral pediatrician, and author of the Monster Diary series told us that, "our children have unprecedented access to wonderful educational opportunities through digital media.
Interactive, nonjudgmental apps can enhance cognitive development processing and organization, visual-spatial awareness, pattern recognition and even reading , social and emotional awareness, and even moral development. When we control technology—and not the other way around—the potential is enormous.
The American Academy of Pediatrics says that "media can have educational value for children starting at around 18 months of age, but it's critically important that this be high-quality programming, such as the content offered by Sesame Workshop and PBS.
Children who watched the show for 30 minutes each day for two weeks demonstrated improved empathy, the ability to recognize emotions and increased social confidence. But, here's the catch: In order to experience this growth, children needed to have recurrent conversations about what they saw with their parents. Knowing the science behind the benefits of screen time is great.
But when that afternoon struggle hits, it can be hard to remember exactly what to do, so DeWitt encourages parents to make a plan—here's how. Do you want them to have an opportunity to be creative and think outside the box? Is there something going on at home or in school that requires learning about sharing? What do I want my kids to get out of their digital media time? How can it support our family schedule and priorities? It is okay to factor your needs into the equation, mama. Deriving benefit from your child's screen time is no need to feel guilty. Go ahead and start dinner, or send that email, or yes gasp , put your feet up and relax for a bit.
Kids do best with clear boundaries and expectations. This will be especially important if you are implementing changes to how screen time is done in your home. You could say, "You can play the Wild Kratts game for 30 minutes while I work on dinner, and then we are going to go outside and flap our wings as bats do! Do you think we should eat mosquitos for dinner like they do?!
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Before you start the show, Dreiske recommends planting the communication seed: "Today we're going to notice what we're feeling and what the characters are feeling. When screen time is over, strike up a conversation. Dreiske suggests open-ended questions that help to "[create] a special space in which your child feels safe enough emotionally to confide in you about their experiences. Let the child's emotion or feelings 'lead' the talk rather than being obscured by your feelings.
Like everything in life, screen time is best in moderation. It is important that children know that screen time is one of the many options they have for activities.
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Exercise, outdoor play, reading, coloring and more are also incredibly important. If there is a show or game your child particularly loves, DeWitt suggests finding the non-screen time version of it. If your child likes Ready Jet Go! In other words, we can make digital media as a jumping off point for family fun!
Sara DeWitt writes, "It helps to remember digital media is simply a tool , just like books, toys and art supplies. As parents, we have the power to decide how and when to use these tools with our kids. When used thoughtfully, and with love, high-quality screen time is an incredibly powerful way to foster empathy and kindness in the next generation. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.
There are many compassionate people in America and so when reports of unsanitary conditions and limited supplies for detained children living in a border patrol station spread across the country, many of these compassionate people thought they could help by donating things like diapers, soap, toothbrushes and toys for the children being detained. But, as we noted earlier this week, U. Customs and Border Patrol CBP is not accepting donations of physical goods and is not accepting offers to volunteer inside the detention facilities.
As first reported by The Texas Tribune , well-meaning people showing up with goods are being turned away, and a Border Patrol official told a state lawmaker that the agency doesn't accept donations. When Texas state Rep. Terry Canales of Edinburg reached out to Border Patrol asking for a list of acceptable items to donate, he was shocked and disappointed by the response.
CNN reports Border Patrol officials say they aren't actually running low on supplies, so they don't need the donations.
On a call with journalists, the unnamed official reportedly told CNN the agency uses operational funding to buy these kinds of things and that they have been available continuously, although they did note they are looking at the possibility of using donations in the future. CBP says it has the funding for hygiene supplies, but it is that the clear hygiene supplies aren't making it to the detainees.
Canales explains the disconnect is worrisome, and he thinks direct donations would help and is keeping a dialogue open with CBP about the possibility. While CBP may be considering it, there's a whole lot standing in the way, namely, the Antideficiency Act , which prevents government agencies from "accepting voluntary services for the United States, or employing personal services not authorized by law, except in cases of emergency involving the safety of human life or the protection of property.
Many would argue that this situation is an "emergency involving the safety of human life," but at this point, U. Customs and Border Patrol is going by the book and saying no. Motherly has heard from concerned people seeking advice on how to volunteer inside the facilities. At this point, that is not possible. Canales is hoping to keep working with U.
Customs and Border Patrol to figure out a way that people who want to help these kids can. Right now, when people show up with boxes of diapers they are not being received, so taking such goods to a border patrol facility may not be the best use of your time and funds. We have listed organizations that are helping and can accept donations here. Last week Chief Operating Officer John Sanders told The Associated Press the border patrol stations which are supposed to hold about 4, people, max are way, way over capacity with about 15, detainees.
This week, Sanders announced he's resigning. On Tuesday Connecticut became the eighth state including D. Today was a win for family leave advocates in Connecticut, as it's been a long road to getting this bill passed. At one point it was even suggested that Lamont would veto the bill , but in the end, lawmakers came to a consensus that it is in the best interest of parents, babies and basically everyone in Connecticut. Connecticut's plan is widely regarded as the most generous in the United States because workers will get 12 paid weeks of work to take care of a new baby, sick family member or take care of themselves.
Oh, and anyone experiencing complications from pregnancy can take an extra two weeks of paid leave to recover from that. Workers in the state will be able to start collecting these benefits in and the plan is funded through a 0. In a statement to Motherly, Catherine Bailey the Deputy Director or Campaign for Paid Family Leave at Connecticut Women's Education and Legal Fund explained the campaign a coalition of more than 75 organizations that has fought for paid family and medical leave applauds the paid family and medical leave plan.
She believes the plan will "provide economic stability when women and families need it most - when they need to care for themselves or a loved one, or welcome a new child. We regret the error. There are many heartwarming stories out there about people with different disabilities defying the odds. So many that Leigh Merryday Porch, mom to a year-old autistic boy from Florida, felt the need to share her story—which paints a different perspective—on Facebook.
Merryday Porch told People in an interview "the accomplishments are beautiful, what's disturbing are the lessons people try to take away—that if you just follow the formula someone else did, that any child with a disability can do the same. It's oversimplified and ultimately hints that any other outcome is less worthy. The facebook post , which has been shared over times, reads: "If you have an autistic child, you've seen the stories.
Friends tend to tag you in them or PM you to share. They're stories of autistic kids who didn't talk but do now, children who sing the national anthem, young women who compete in beauty pageants, and those on the spectrum who graduate from college. And you don't mind the stories, because human beings persevering in the face of adversity is a beautiful thing. Those quotes are all sorts of inspirational—for some. But if you have a child whose disability is severe, such quotes are felt like a slap.
Because some disabilities cannot be overcome.
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They can be accepted, worked with, planned for, and accommodated, but no amount of parental love and determination can erase them. Callum is not going to go to law school. He's simply not wired for that, and I can't rewire him. The fact that I can accept that and love him unconditionally does not reflect him having not been raised by someone willing to try harder.
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Because—over my dead body—will he be relegated as somehow less worthy for not doing the unexpected and unrealistic. The presence of an autistic adult in the world who doesn't make the newspaper is not a statement of failure. Not of society, not of his family, and certainly not of himself. And other than steadfastly insisting he be given every reasonable opportunity any other person has to live, learn, and grow, no other declarations need be made—and no dead bodies required.
You can write up a birth plan and pack your hospital bags well in advance, but here's the truth: Having a baby doesn't always go according to plan. You can anticipate a vaginal delivery and wind up having a C-section, go into labor before you've completed your nursery, find yourself very pregnant days after your due date has passed Take Jessa Duggar Seewald, for example. Our leading practice home care program is accredited by The Joint Commission. Our program employs 12 registered nurses who perform home visits five days a week. They provide an average of 4, home visits a year. A Cleveland Clinic Martin Health nurse will visit moms and their new babies in the comfort of their own home.
During the Fourth Trimester, defined as the transition period from birth through three months, our nurses are able to provide continued support for up to 12 weeks in some cases. An education packet rich with available community resources is reviewed and provided to mother. Cleveland Clinic Martin Health prioritizes care for the community.
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Lucie County. Cleveland Clinic Martin Health also works with Tykes and Teens to connect mothers with counselling resources if they can be of benefit. The annual Goombay Bash funding supports maternal, newborn, infant, and pediatric programs. They have provided the five colorful Baby Mobile cars our nurses use to perform home visits. Learn more at martinhealth.